Started B.Arch, hosteled up, got my bank account, paid my fees etc faced success & Failures on my own, in other words, I almost became independent in 98'.
Started work, paid for my insurance, fuel bills, travels, clothes, gifts, saved some moolah in other words, became independent in 03'.
Married homemaker, distant probability of 2 years of school, Joint bank account with darling hubby (Internet banking sucks*) in 07'.
Maybe the first 2 experiences were so much about ME, I pretty much was depressed all through 07!
I blamed B for everything (Including super fun trips to Vegas, Moab, Portland??)
I promised (Crying hysterically) that I'd repay everything he was paying for, I made vague accounts how much I'd have to pay B back ( Furiously threatening )
I took pride in hurting sweet B and letting him know blatantly that he was responsible for everything!
This weekend, he remembered everything and was only glad I didn't complaint anymore :-D
He hopes I don't become the whiny monster again when this job's gone!
My pride's sobered down, I have changed, really thank B for the wonderful life he's given me ....
* Internet banking = all details where I swipe my card, meaning no surprise gifts :-(
3 comments:
Sweety Pakhi....Go SLEEP!
Thanks for the comments though love ya :-)
Oh I totally get what u mean by depressed all through 07. Even with the baby and handful of chores I sometimes feel that way :(
Hope I become independent (financially) again soon :)
And very sweet of him put up with all ur tantrums :P
Divya, it always runs in circles, first exams, then jobs, then the 'Right' guy, then kids....then job again? lol lets step back and enjoy life :-D
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