Sin 5 - Wrath

And then, it happened....

All these days, B patiently managed to bear my umm...to put it lightly "Tantrums"
Women are absolutely beautiful, sensitive and overtly emotional creatures, and men try to appreciate it, but every once in a while or after about zillion such meltdowns, they just cant manage any of it, devise a method to go immune to it all.

Ok, I'll stop beating around the bush....
when we have a disagreement, many a times as soon as we hit the bed, something common in a marriage right!
Every now & then, the issue never gets resolved as B refuses to drag matters that for no practical reason need reasoning!

But then, me being me.......put in a lot of masala and dramatically walk to the living room saying I'm not sleepy, so will watch TV.
I honestly do watch some late night reruns of Sex & the City and intentionally sleep off on the couch.
( I bring in a pillow and comforter with me as I storm out of the bed :-)

A very distraught and sleepy B drags himself and persuades me to come back to bed :-) and a happy me brings back the topic that lead us this far, settle it to my satisfaction and hop my way back to sleep :-0

Yeah I know it sounds so bitchy & mean...but don't worry, it doesn't work like that anymore!

 The other day, I did the same storming exercise and watched 2 episodes of Sarah Jessica Parker remind me how pathetic my sense of fashion is, watched almost the entire season of Bridalplasty (That is fun)
and yet, no B.....I had already made sounds in the kitchen trying to wake B up all in vain :-(

So as I watched more TV, I dozed off on the couch and a slightly guilty B woke me up to some good coffee and toast at 5:30 AM!!!!!

I did make a fuss about having slept alone, about him being over me, about him not caring for me anymore....yawnnn, to sum it all up, I blame him for letting me sleep on the couch!!

But then as I ponder, I have now come to realize I cannot take him for granted anymore, cannot expect the expected after 4 odd years of marriage, sigh I have to GROW UP (Oh please do that Shilpa)

Note : The Drama queen has to die, she's had a very long unhealthy life

Tweet

Ok, I made it to Twitter now....@hailmogambo,
Fun name alva...lol
It's exclusively for my desi friends to stay in touch with my closest buddies, give them a dose of my life here, keeping promises of everlasting friendship and remind myself I have so much to cherish :-)

Just being Lazy

So, we returned from this vacation in LA ;
Correction..... I returned from LA after our vacation and B flew to Detroit on work from LA, we didn't  fly back together :-(
I got back home late and slept in late until this morning, decided it would continue as my vacation as I was in no mood for work!
As this blissul day continues, I made some lunch which required almost no attention (Lemon rice) and by evening I realised I hadnt unpacked, hadnt done pretty much anything at home......
I have to confess, this happens to me all the time B's travelling for work! I dont exercise, dont watch what I eat, crazy sleep patterns and somehow always skip atleast 1 day of shower :-)
Today, I went ahead and baked myself a cake and ate half of it :-), given the fact that he's returning only on Thursday, I recon the cake will be all gone.....
I still stare at the pile of clothes on the floor and contemplate...It can be done tomorrow, it's just me, I can live with that for a day!

It's 1.1.11

Our 'Green' tree

Given the Pollution, De-forestation, attack of the plastic 'Christmas trees', a little bored me decided to do my little thing this season :-)

What do you think ?

The start of Globalization.....

So we owe it all to Raj Kapoor ?

Jootha - Japan
Pataloon - England
Lal Topi - Russia
Dil - India
And all this he managed in 1955.....

Ps : If nostalgic, click on the link above for the song we all know :-)

Who does this?

Imagine this scenario...I see my friend Nagaraj (Lovingly called Nagulu ) online after 3 years and excitedly try to chat:

Me: Hiii Nagulu....hengidiya?

He: Hi, I'm fine how are you?

Me: Eno madtidiya dabba? college mugeeta?

He: silent...
More silence, and then some more....

Me: Is this Nagraj?

He: yes

Me: My colleague from OSSA, B'lore?

He: No Shilpa, I am Sudhi's (my BIL) cousin.... Raja, remember?

Me: Awkward!!!!!!and apologetic for a zillion times then give quick regards to his wife and kid, say bye!

Why do these things happen to me? I called my sis and she laughs and says the same thing,
"Why does it happen always with you??"
Well, I don't even remember him on my chat list!!so I am not to blame :-(